Queer Valentine’s Day Parties in Oakland and SF

February 2024 is primed to be packed with hot, sexy, sweet and romance themed LGBTQ+ events for queer and trans folks in the Bay. From Oakland, to San Francisco (and even San Jose) – we’ve got them listed here for you. Will you find a new boo or your new ex? Who’s to say!

Sunday, Feb 4: LOVE SPELL: A Queer Dance Party and Flirt Fest

Queer in Oakland and Reverse Cowgirl come together to you bring you LOVE SPELL, an evening queer dance party from 5:30pm – 8:30pm at an exclusive indoor / outdoor rooftop venue in downtown Oakland, with sxy vendors to turn up the heat. Need a boo? Come early for speed dating from 3:30 – 5:30pm.

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Feb 10: Divine Masc: Black Valentine 

Red means passion in every language, and on February 10th, Divine Masc, a For Us / By Us Transmasc bar night, invites you to Black Valentine from 5:00pm – 9:00pm at Powerhouse San Francisco. Wear Red to signal you’re on the prowl. Sounds by The Junior. Grab more information on Instagram.

Feb 10: Hello Kunty Valentine’s

Kitsch lovers! Hello Kunty will be an experience to not missed. Hosted by multi-art events organization, In Charje, the event will showcase the beauty of underground queer artists. Expect dancers, Hardcore / Donk Bops and Hello Kitty costuming. Come dressed as HELLO KITTY and scope out your competition. Hosted at the Record Bar in San Francisco. Learn more.

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Feb 10: Five Finger Disco: Valentine’s Edition

Join Charles Hawethorne and Nina Sol for a night of disco classics, soulful divas, funky grooves and modern remixes that’ll have you moving allllll night long.  Tease up that hair, shine those sequins, and hit the dancefloor for Five Finger Disco like the star that you are at Amber Lounge in Oakland. Learn more.

Feb 11: A Valentine’s Drag Show

Join Queer Arts Saves Lives for a fabulous and sassy queer Valentine’s Day celebration. Their Valentine Market Drag Show is going to be an event to remember. Witness a stunning display of talent, beauty, and glamour as their talented drag performers take the stage. Learn more.

Feb 13: Queer Strip Club Pop Up

Get your loins burning in preparation for a saucy Valentine’s with the iconic Nani Panther & Vida. There will be no cover, which means there’s no excuse not to cum 😉 Bring your ones, bring your lovers, and your angelic self – and prepare to fall in luv at 3323 Mission Street in San Francisco. Learn more.

Feb 13: Valentine’s Queer and Trans Speed Dating, San Francisco

Queer and trans folks in San Francisco looking for love in a structured mini-date setting, meet up at DECANT SF from 6:30pm – 8:30pm for an evening of speed dating with Little Gay Book. Learn more on their registration page.

Feb 15: Love Juice

Hosted every third Thursday at Nectar Social Club, Juice promises a queer, alternative drag experience with captivating themes. Each show features a unique custom cocktail to dazzle your taste buds, setting the stage for a night of fabulous entertainment!⁣ This month’s cocktail is the Love Potion No. 69, a delicious sangria to warm the cockles of your heart. Featuring Vera Hannush, Nia Politan and CHIEF Princess Polly Pocket Pump at Nectar Social Club in Oakland. Learn more. 

Feb 17: Marimacha

Join El Afters and SF LA Queer Nightlight a for a steamy night of perreo, reggaeton, cumbia, and club music with De Alma, Xulauquiles, Oscat and DREAMS on sounds. Plus go go dancers and more sexy fun. At Fluid 510 in Oakland. Learn more.

Feb 17: Winter Pride: Queer Valentines Yoga

Celebrate Valentine’s Week in community with other queer folks through an expression of self and collective love on the mat.  No movement or yoga experience required at SoulFlow Oakland. Hosted by Melissa Andrada. Learn more. 

Want more queer events in Oakland and SF? Check out our queer event calendar.